Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Want success in love life? Brush your teeth

No success in love life? Well, all you need to do is be committed to oral hygeine for bad breath may be what’s keeping your love away from you.

A new Oz survey has revealed that not having bad breath can get you success in love life. The survey, conducted by group pureprofile on behalf of dental products group Oral B, questioned 1001 people and discovered that 96 per cent of Australians surveyed agreed that bad oral hygiene makes kissing less enjoyable, reports Sydney Morning Herald.

Ninety-six per cent of the volunteers think bad breath affects the enjoyment of kissing. Sixty-one per cent of respondents say they have stopped snogging someone because of "bad oral hygiene". Bad oral hygiene can also affect your career, according to the survey.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Good sex everyday, keeps doctors away





You would have never thought that a kiss could help keeping dental worries at bay or a gratifying sexual act at night make you feel fit and fresh the next morning. But that's what studies across the web claim. Healthy sex leads to a healthy life.

You may have tried copious measures to get that extra glowing skin and shiny hair. You must have also worked out rigorously to achieve that perfect ten figure you've desired. But the key to your mind and heart is fulfilling sex. Even for those who lose their temper or are always in a depressed state of mind, 'sex' can be the solution.




A happy sexual life with your partner not only gets you in shape with better skin texture and silken tresses, it also burns extra calories, keeps you fit, combats asthma, relieves headache, reduces depression and tranquilises your mind. From make-up experts, hair stylists, sexologists and fitness connoisseurs – there's a common consensus that a vigourous sexual life leads to a healthy life – both physically and emotionally.

We get them share more on this... There have been several notions stating that 'sex' produces certain hormones that bring happiness, which lead to a fit body and a healthy mind. Shedding some light on this, Sex contributes to general good health. Any sexual intimacy that is enjoyable and pleasurable promotes well being by providing several physical and psychological benefits.

It is believed that sex boosts chemicals in the body that protects us against diseases. Research also suggests that sex and masturbation can help ease joint and muscle pain, combat depression, promote heart health and lengthen one's life span.The basic fact is that a good sex life also means in a larger picture, a good relationship with one's partner and this makes the partner happier, less stressed and by virtue of that physically healthier.

Not just this, sex also accelerates blood circulation and one's basic metabolic rate, which further enhances the well-being of our mind and soul and helps us calm down.A satisfying sexual relationship strengthens the bond between couples, making them feel secure and loved. The feeling of emotional connectedness adds to ones sense of belonging, which in totality helps them achieve a positive physical, psychological and spiritual state that is necessary for one's general health.Sex is a way of bonding at the physical, mental and emotional level and leads to health (including psychological) benefits. If it is used as a mechanical process, it may have limited benefits. There are physiological benefits of positive changes in parameters like pulse, heart rate, reduction after an increase in B.P. specially if vigourous sex is tried, dilation of blood vessels and capillaries of the skin, leading to a 'glow', burning of a few calories (depending on the duration of the act and vigour), exercising of some of the muscles, thus improving lung capacity (during heavy breathing)." However, we also need to understand that sexual acts work more in terms of improving resistance, but are not a safe guard or a treatment to illnesses. Any sexual act can neither be used as a treatment nor would it change your stresses of life, which one would need to resolve irrespective. The extra edge of sex may be due to the feeling of being wanted, an expression of emotions and certain hormonal and physiological changes that happen as an expression of love for another individual. Unfortunately, the benefits of sexuality are usually quoted out of context and people may look at this as a panacea for everything. But sexuality without emotions have limited value.

10 ways to impress your woman




If you've tried all crazy and weird means to lure that handsome colleague or win over your dream girl, here’s a quick guide to impress your woman Impressing her No matter how much you hate it, but if you want to impress a woman, just help her carry those shopping bags.




And in case that's not enough to flatter your lady, below are 10 best ways that will surely make them fall for you.




1. Ask questions Over dinner, in a restaurant, nothing beats a good question or two. For instance How was your day?




2. Stop asking questions After you have asked enough questions, particularly the right ones, there will come a time when you should stop - when you're in bed together.




3. Call me back straightaway Verbose, over-worked text messages just look keen and girly. Be a man and say it in 350 characters or don't say it at all.




4. Don't be tight When it comes to small change, taxi fares, coffee money, tips and treats, penny-pinching is a huge turn off.




5. Carry bags If they're heavy, please don't make a fuss about it, just do it.




6. Don't hide your appreciation There is no girl alive who doesn't want a priapic response to a new dress.




7. 'No' to: Clammy hands, grunting in public, salivating into earholes, 'sexy' tickling, jokes about love handles and twanging bras.




8. A firm touch and a smooth hand, a frank attitude to nudity, evident and matter-of-fact carnal enjoyment, and an attentive approach to often overlooked areas of the female body.




9. Talk about ex-girlfriends Too much detail about ex-girlfriends is as harmful as not talking about them at all.




10. Criticism Say what you like about her friends, work, flat, table manners

Is Generation X battling with loneliness?


Internet has replaced outdoor games, pubs have replaced evening strolls with friends and holding hands is totally passé; kissing and other intimate displays of affection are more 'kewl'.


For teens today, it's all about flaunting, casual dating, downloading and MMSing. Contemporary lifestyle, which provides accessible technology, is creating a new breed of teenagers.


Revelling in new found freedom, their indisciplined and, in some cases, dangerously wild lives are a secret from parents, teachers, siblings.


What's the reason for this phenomenon?


Is it just hormones or is there more to it?


Is technology and modern lifestyle creating a breed of lonely kids who'd rather spend time with their gadgets than with each other?



Somebody say .


I totally agree to all this because we have taken advantage of freedom - even for the freedom to do wrong. The lines of wrong and right have blurred to such an extent that one doesn't know if pointing out what is wrong is being judgemental.

I Dont thinks so!! its just a new trend! what used to take hours now can be done in a second's time Why blame technology? Kids need proper guidance and support from childhood which they no longer get

Men say women more sexy in winter


The fair sex might find it hard to believe but a new study has claimed that women's bare flesh in winter is a bigger turn-on for men. A team at UP University in India has carried out the study and found that men actually find women's bodies more attractive in the winter -- a revelation they claim might have an impact on mate choice and on levels of adultery.


According to researchers, though there is no clear explanation for the seasonal variation, one theory can be that fewer female bodies are on display in winter and so the rarity makes them more attractive,


The Sunday Telegraph reported. In fact, they came to the conclusion after carrying out an experiment on 114 men who were asked to rate photos of women at different times of the year. The participants were shown snaps every three months over a period of five seasons.


Three kinds of photographs were shown to the subjects -- full body portraits of women in black swimsuits, exposed breasts of different sizes, and faces of young women. Results revealed that bodies and breasts were rated most attractive in autumn and winter, and least attractive in summer. But there's no seasonal variation in ratings for faces -- which the team members believe may be because women's faces are on view all year round.

Mantra For Sex


My husband Tom may have called a quickie the “best type of sex”, but in reality, one needs priming for a ‘fast’ session, says a leading sex expert. In an interview , Rajiv sharma, couples counsellor and consultant to Durex Play, revealed the mantra while giving some tips for a satisfying quickie.


What you’re thinking about is that if you want to have wild sex when you get home in a very short time period, you need to prime yourself,” The telegraph quoted her, as saying. She added: If you had a terrible journey and caught your heel in something, you’re not going to feel in the mood so you need to think about sex during the day. Ideally 24 hours beforehand and basically, wake up your mind to the idea of sex. If you open your mind, the rest will follow.


Apart from opening your mind, the number one tip is that women usually get turned on by what they hear and think. "So you could get your partner to send you a sexy text – or call you during the day with a sexy message - saying how much he desires you and how gorgeous you are. “You could also read erotic fiction. Those two are probably the two fastest routes to a quick turn on." "Good quick sex is just about priming yourself." My husband Tom recently said in an interview that the sex scene in his Old movie Kamasutra , was kept to a mere four seconds, because quickies – in real life and on screen - are the “best type of sex”.

Cyber sex causes high depression


People who frequent on Internet sex, fetish and swinging sites have "alarmingly high" rates of depression, anxiety and stress, says a shocking new research. What's more, people who seek out cyber sex typically devote hours a day to the covert activity, the study found.


The research also revealed that overwhelmingly male, well-educated, and aged anywhere from 18 to 80 indulge in such kind of'pleasure. They spend an average of just over 12 hours on the sites each week - mostly chatting, participating in cyber sex with webcams, downloading video and images, or sending erotic emails, the study found.


The research revealed that more than 65 per cent of the 1325 men surveyed said they had met someone off line that they had first encountered online. Rohit, a doctoral student at indian university University of technology in India, said the study, to be presented at a major psychology conference tomorrow, was the first to paint a full picture of cyber sex surfers.


Most concerning was the high rate of poor mental health among the sample group. "We found that 27 per cent of them were moderate to severely depressed on the standard depression scales," Sydney Morning Herald quoted Squirrell, as saying. "Thirty per cent had high levels of anxiety and 35 per cent were moderately to severely stressed, which is of course extremely high," Squirrell added. The more heavily they engaged in online sexual activity the higher their level of depression and anxiety was, he said.